The physician-patient interaction is both professional and social. The
bedside visit fulfills the brotherhood obligation of visiting the sick. The human relation with the patient comes before the
professional technical relation. It is reassurance, psychological and social support, show of fraternal love, and sharing.
A psychologically satisfied patient is more likely to be cooperative in taking medication, eating, or drinking. The following
are recommended during a visit: greeting the patient; prayer/supplication, dua, for
the patient; good encouraging words; asking about the patient’s feelings; doing good/pleasing things for the patient;
making the patient happy, and encouraging the patient to be patient; discouraging
the patient from wishing for death; advice, nasiihat, for the patient; reminding
the patient about remembering God, dhikr. Caregivers should seek permission, idhn, before getting to the patient. They should not engage in secret conversations
that do not involve the patient.
ETIQUETTE OF THE PATIENT
The patient should express gratitude to the caregivers
even if there is no physical improvement. Patient complaints should be for drawing attention to problems that need attention
and not criticizing caregivers. The patient should be patient because illness is expiation for sins, kaffaarat, and Allah rewards those who surrender and persevere. The patient should make prayer/supplication, dua, for himself, caregivers, visitors, and others because the supplication, dua, of the patient has a special position with Allah. When a patient sneezes
he should praise Allah and the mouth to avoid spread of infections. It is obligatory for the attendants to respond to the
sneezer. The patient should try his best to eat and drink although the appetite may be low. The caregivers can not force the
patient to eat. They should try their best to provide the favorite food of the patient. The believing patient should never lose hope from Allah. He should never wish for death. The patient should try
his best to avoid anger directed at himself or others. Getting angry is a sign of losing patience.
ETIQUETTE OF THE CARE-GIVER
The caregiver should respect the rights of the patient regarding advance directives on
treatment, privacy, access to information, informed consent, and protection from nosocomial infections. Caregivers must be
clean and dress appropriately to look serious, organized and disciplined. They must be cheerful, lenient, merciful, and kind.
They must enjoin the good, have good thoughts, husn al dhann, about the patients
and avoid evil or obscene words. They must observe the rules of lowering the gaze, ghadh
al basar, and being secluded in a closed place, khalwat. Caregivers must have
an attitude of humbleness, tawadhu'u, They cannot be emotionally-detached in the
mistaken impression that they are being professional. They must be loving and empathetic and show mercifulness but the emotional
involvement must not go to the extreme of being so engrossed that rational professional judgment is impaired. They must make
supplication, dua, for the patients because pre-determination, qadar, can only be changed by prayer, dua. They can recite some formulas asking for cure, ruqya, for the
patients by using the two surahs of the Qur’an called al mu’awadhatain
or any other verses of the Qur’an. They must seek permission, isti' dhaan,
when approaching or examining patients.
Medical care must be professional, competent, and considerate. Medical decisions should
consider the balance of benefits and risks. The general position of the Law is to give priority to minimizing risk over maximizing
benefit. Any procedures carried out must be explained very well to the patient in advance. The caregiver must never promise
cure or improvement. Every action of the caregiver must be preceded by saying in the name of God, basmalah. Everything should be predicated with the formula if God wishes, inshallah.
The caregivers must listen to the felt needs and problems of the patients. They should ask about both medical and non-medical
problems. Supportive care such as nursing care, cleanliness, physical comfort, nutrition, treatment of fever and pain are
as important as the medical procedures themselves and are all what can be offered in terminal illness. Caregivers must reassure
the patients not to give up hope. Measures should be taken to prevent nosocomial infections.
ETIQUETTE OF INTERACTION BETWEEN GENDERS
Both the caregiver and patient must cover nakedness, awrat, as much as possible. However, the rules of covering are relaxed because of the necessity, dharurat, of medical examination and treatment. The benefit, maslahat,
of medical care takes precedence over preventing the harm inherent in uncovering nakedness, awrat. When it is necessary to uncover nakedness, awrat, no more than
what is absolutely necessary should be uncovered. To avoid any doubts, patients of the opposite gender should be examined
and treated in the presence of others of the same gender. The caregivers should be sensitive to the psychological stress of
patients, including children, when their nakedness, awrat, is uncovered. They should
seek permission from the patient before they uncover their nakedness, awrat. Caregivers
who have never been patients may not realize the depth of the embarrassment of being naked in front of others.
Medical co-education involves intense interaction between genders:
Teacher-student, student-student, and teacher-teacher. Interacting with colleagues of the opposite gender raises special
problems. Norms of dress, speaking, and general conduct; class-room etiquette; social interaction; laboratory experiments
on fellow students; Clinical skills laboratory: learning clinical skills by examining other students; Operation theatre. Medical
personnel of opposite genders should wear gender-specific garments during surgical operations because Islam frowns on any
attempt to look like the opposite gender. Legal, shari’at, guidelines on
interaction with patients of the opposite gender should be followed. Taking history, physical examination, diagnostic procedures,
and operations should preferably be by a physician of the same gender. In conditions of necessity a physician of the opposite
gender can be used and may have to look at the nakedness, ‘awrat, or touch
a patient. The conditions that are accepted as constituting necessity, dharuurat,
are: skills and availability. The preference between a Muslim of opposite gender vs non-Muslim of same gender depends on the
DEALING WITH THE FAMILYVisits by the family fulfill the social obligation of joining
the kindred and should be encouraged. The family members are honored guests of the hospital with all the legal, shari’at, rights of a guest. The caregiver must
provide psychological support to family because they are also victims of the illness because they anxious and worried. They
need reassurance about the condition of the patient within the limits allowed by the rules of confidentiality. The family
can be involved in some aspects of supportive care so that they feel they are helping and are involved. They should however
not be allowed to interrupt medical procedures. Caregivers must be careful not to be involved in family conflicts that arise
from the stresses of illness.